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Hello, my beautiful sisters.
Today, I want to speak directly to the part of you that’s feeling unsure.
You’ve taken a bold step, started something new—a new career, project, relationship, or even a new way of thinking.
And now that the initial excitement has worn off, you’re wondering, Did I make the right choice? Can I actually do this?
Let me tell you this: faith doesn’t mean you won’t have doubts. Faith is what carries you through them.
Faith Is About Believing In The Next Step
Starting something new can feel like standing on a tightrope.
You’re suspended between where you were and where you want to go. Below, there’s fear: fear of failure, fear of judgment, fear of wasting your time.
It’s so easy to look at where you are now and think, This is too hard. I don’t have what it takes.
But here’s the thing, my sisters: faith isn’t about having all the answers or knowing exactly how it will all work out.
Faith is about believing in the next step, even when you can’t see the whole staircase.
It’s about trusting that the woman you’re becoming will rise to the challenge, even if the journey feels messy.
Practical Steps to Keep the Faith
Let’s break this down into actionable steps that will help you stay anchored in faith when the road gets tough.
- Reconnect with Your “Why”
Why did you start this journey in the first place? Write it down. Read it every morning. Your “why” is your compass. When you feel lost or discouraged, it will guide you back to your purpose. - Celebrate Small Wins
Progress is progress, no matter how small. Did you complete a task today? That’s a win. Did you push past a moment of doubt? Another win. Keep a journal of these victories to remind yourself that you’re moving forward. - Build a Support System
Faith is easier to hold onto when you’re not carrying it alone. Surround yourself with people who believe in you—mentors, friends, family. Lean on them when your confidence wavers. Their encouragement can help restore your belief in yourself. - Take Breaks, Not Breakdowns
Burnout can dim your faith faster than anything. Rest isn’t a weakness; it’s a necessity. When you feel overwhelmed, step back to recharge. Faith requires energy, and you can’t pour from an empty cup. - Visualize Your Success
Close your eyes and imagine what success looks and feels like for you. What will your life look like when you’ve accomplished this goal? Use this vision as motivation to keep going, even when the path feels unclear.
Uplifting Call to Action
Sisters, keeping the faith doesn’t mean ignoring the challenges.
It means choosing to trust yourself through them. It means showing up for your dreams, even when it feels scary or uncertain.
I want you to take one small action today—whether it’s journaling about your “why,” celebrating a recent win, or reaching out to a friend who inspires you.
Each step you take strengthens your faith and moves you closer to your vision.
And remember, you are not alone on this journey. Faith is not about being perfect; it’s about being persistent.
Together, we are learning, growing, and healing. So, hold your head high, my beautiful sisters, and keep moving forward. You’ve got this.
