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How to Beat the Monday Morning Blues and Master Your Monday Instead

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Hello, my beautiful sisters.

Let’s be honest—Mondays can feel like a lot.

Whether you’re heading to a job you’re not excited about, facing a week that already feels overwhelming, or just struggling to shift from weekend mode to work mode, the Monday blues are real.

But what if Monday didn’t have to feel like a struggle? What if Monday became your launchpad instead of your letdown?

Today, we’re talking about how to master your Monday and start your week with purpose, peace, and power.


Why Mondays Can Feel So Hard

Sis, I see you.

Sometimes Monday feels heavy because you’re tired before the week even starts. Other times, it’s because you feel stuck in a cycle—same work, same stress, same exhaustion, repeat.

For many of us, Monday doesn’t just bring a calendar full of tasks—it brings self-doubt, anxiety, and a reminder of everything you didn’t finish last week.

You are not lazy. You are not failing. You are human—and you are carrying more than anyone knows.


Monday is a Gift, Not a Punishment

What if Monday isn’t your enemy?

What if Monday is actually your power day—the day you set the tone for everything that follows?

Monday isn’t just about work. It’s a chance to reclaim your energy, your focus, and your mindset.

Instead of dragging into the week, you can step into it like the boss you are. Monday can become your reset, your recommitment, and your fresh start.


You Were Made for This Moment

Sis, you have everything you need to own your Monday.

Even if you woke up tired. Even if the to-do list is long. Even if last week drained you.

God didn’t just give you the work—He gave you the strength to do it. And you don’t have to wait for Friday to feel good about yourself.

You can walk into Monday with faith, fire, and focus. Because you are not the same woman who ended last week—you are stronger, wiser, and ready.


Practical Steps to Master Your Monday Plan

Here’s a list of five practical steps that you can use the master your Mondays. Use the template below to create a form that you can fill out each Monday.

StepActionNotes
1 Start with Gratitude.Start with Gratitude – Before you touch your phone, pause and thank God for a new week and new mercies.
2 Set Your Intention for the DaySet Your Intention for the Day – Choose one word that defines how you want to show up (calm, confident, focused, joyful).
3 Tackle One Quick Win FirstTackle One Quick Win First – Choose one small, easy task to complete first thing—it gives you an early victory.
4 Set a Morning PlaylistSet a Morning Playlist – Music shifts your mood fast. Choose songs that energize you, inspire you, or make you smile.
5 Speak Life Over Your WeekSpeak Life Over Your Week – Write or speak your affirmations for the week ahead.

Your Monday Affirmations & Prayer

You can also use both affirmations and prayer to re-confirm your commitment to making the most of your Monday opportunity.

Affirmations:

  • I walk into this week with confidence and purpose.
  • I am equipped for every task I will face.
  • My work is valuable, and so am I.
  • I will not let fear or doubt set the tone for my week.
  • I show up fully because God placed me here on purpose.

My Monday Morning Prayer:

“Lord, thank You for this new week and all the opportunities it holds. Fill my heart with peace, my mind with clarity, and my spirit with strength. Help me to see each task as a chance to glorify You and to honor the gifts You placed inside me. I release anxiety, perfectionism, and comparison. I walk in faith, not fear. And I declare that this week is blessed—because You are with me. Amen.”


Your Healing Call to Action

Sis, take 5 minutes right now.

  • Write down one word that captures how you want to show up today.
  • List one small win you can accomplish before noon.
  • Choose one affirmation to repeat to yourself whenever doubt creeps in.

Then say your prayer out loud—and step into this Monday like the masterpiece you are.

Let’s make this a week of purpose, not pressure. You’ve got this!!

Author

  • Shelia Huggins Photo for Black Girl Heal Blog

    Shelia Huggins is a 20+ year attorney who has helped clients with their business and personal legal challenges. She blogs at Black Girl Heal to provide insight and practical strategies for those seeking to heal the struggles of their wallets, mindsets, and lives. Known as "Ms Legalista" on YouTube, she is passionate about helping people find their path and achieve the personal success they've been looking for.

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