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Hello, my beautiful sisters.
Let’s talk about something we rarely take the time to do—auditing our lives.
We audit businesses, we check our bank statements, we review our diets, but when was the last time you sat down and really took stock of your life?
The truth is, without regular check-ins, we can end up stuck in routines, relationships, and mindsets that no longer serve us.
Sis, today, we’re going to talk about why you need to audit your life and how to do it in a way that brings clarity, purpose, and direction.
Empathy & Understanding
I know life moves fast.
You have responsibilities, goals, and people depending on you. You’ve been doing what you’re supposed to do, following the path that made the most sense at the time.
But somehow, you feel drained.
Maybe you feel stuck, like you’re running on autopilot, or you keep putting off your own dreams because you’re too busy helping everyone else. Sound familiar?
The thing is, you can’t fix what you don’t acknowledge.
That’s why an honest life audit is so important. It allows you to reflect, reset, and redirect your energy where it actually matters.
Practical Steps: How to Audit Your Life
- Evaluate Where You Are Now
Grab a journal and assess different areas of your life: career, finances, relationships, health, personal growth, and happiness. Rate each one from 1 to 10. Be brutally honest with yourself—where are you thriving, and where are you just surviving? - Identify What’s Draining You
Think about the things that leave you feeling exhausted, uninspired, or resentful. Are you in a job that drains your soul? A relationship that no longer aligns with your values? Are you overcommitting to things out of guilt or obligation? If something feels like a burden instead of a blessing, it’s time to address it. - Pinpoint What Energizes You
On the flip side, what brings you joy? What activities make you feel alive? Who do you love being around? The things that light you up should be at the center of your life, not pushed to the sidelines. - Declutter Your Commitments
If it doesn’t serve your growth, it might be time to let it go. This could mean cutting back on unnecessary obligations, setting boundaries, or shifting your focus toward what truly matters. Don’t be afraid to say no to things that don’t align with your purpose. - Create an Action Plan
Now that you know what needs to change, set clear, actionable goals. If you need to change careers, start learning a new skill. If you want healthier relationships, be intentional about communication. If you want to feel more at peace, create time for self-care. Small, consistent steps lead to big transformations.
You Can Take Control of the Plane
Sisters, your life is too precious to be spent on autopilot.
You have the power to shift, to pivot, to reclaim your time and energy. It’s never too late to realign with your purpose.
And guess what?
You don’t need permission to change your life—you just need the courage to start.
Uplifting Call to Action
This week, I challenge you to audit your life.
Take one hour to sit with yourself and assess where you are. Write down what’s working and what isn’t.
Make a decision—just one—that will bring you closer to the life you truly want. And if you’re ready to do this work together, let’s keep this conversation going.
Drop a comment, share this with a sister who needs it, and remember—this is YOUR life.
Make it one that feels good to live.
✨ You are worthy of a life that feels aligned. Now go claim it. ✨
