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Hello, my beautiful sisters.
I know what it feels like to want more for yourself while struggling just to get through the day. The bills are due, the stress is high, and chasing your goals can feel like a luxury when you’re just trying to survive.
But let me tell you something: your dreams don’t disappear just because times are hard. If anything, they become even more important.
Because those goals? They are the very things that can pull you out of this season of struggle.
So today, we’re going to talk about how to work on your goals, even when you’re barely scraping by. Because sis, you are not stuck—you’re just in transition.
Let’s get into it.
1. Shift Your Mindset: Small Steps Are Still Progress
When money is tight and stress is high, it’s easy to feel like you don’t have the time, energy, or resources to work on your goals. But progress doesn’t have to be big to be meaningful.
🚀 What to Do:
- Stop thinking, “I can’t do this right now.” Instead, ask, “What CAN I do today?”
- Set micro-goals that take 5–10 minutes a day.
- Remind yourself: small, consistent steps lead to big results over time.
💡 Example: If your goal is to start a business but you can’t afford to invest right now, spend 10 minutes researching free resources or brainstorming ideas. That’s still progress.
2. Use Free or Low-Cost Resources
Money struggles shouldn’t stop you from learning, growing, and making moves. There are free tools, classes, and resources everywhere—you just have to know where to look.
🚀 What to Do:
- Use YouTube and free online courses to build skills.
- Borrow books from the library or use free audiobook apps.
- Find free business tools like Canva (for designs), Google Docs (for planning), and Trello (for organizing).
💡 Example: If you want to build a side hustle but can’t afford a website, start with a free Instagram page, TikTok account, or Etsy shop to showcase your work.
3. Maximize the Time You Do Have
I know you’re busy. Maybe you’re working multiple jobs, taking care of family, or just exhausted from life’s demands.
But even in a packed schedule, there are small pockets of time that you can reclaim.
🚀 What to Do:
- Wake up 15 minutes earlier to work on your goal.
- Use your lunch break to listen to a podcast or take notes.
- Batch tasks on weekends to make progress when you have more energy.
💡 Example: If your goal is to write a book but you have no time, commit to writing just 200 words per day. That’s a whole book in a year!
4. Find a Support System (Even If It’s Online)
Trying to do everything alone makes it even harder. You need people who encourage you, inspire you, and keep you accountable.
🚀 What to Do:
- Join free online communities (Facebook groups, Reddit, LinkedIn groups).
- Connect with like-minded women on Instagram and TikTok.
- Find an accountability partner who shares your goals.
💡 Example: If your goal is to change careers, join a LinkedIn or Facebook group where people share job tips and resources.
5. Give Yourself Grace, but Stay Committed
Some days will be harder than others. You might feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or just tired. That’s okay. But don’t let one bad day turn into giving up.
🚀 What to Do:
- Rest when you need to, but don’t quit.
- Celebrate small wins—every bit of progress counts.
- Keep your WHY in front of you. Write it down, make a vision board, or set reminders on your phone.
💡 Example: If you miss a day or a week of working on your goal, just start again. The most successful people aren’t the ones who never struggle—they’re the ones who refuse to give up.
You Are Closer Than You Think
Sis, I know it’s hard. I know the weight of your responsibilities can feel crushing.
But I need you to hear me when I say this: you are not stuck, and you are not powerless.
Every little effort you make is pushing you closer to the life you want. Even if you don’t see it yet, you are laying the foundation for your breakthrough.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to keep showing up for yourself.
Uplifting Call to Action: Start Where You Are
Here’s what I want you to do today:
1️⃣ Write down one small action you can take toward your goal this week.
2️⃣ Find one free resource to help you move forward.
3️⃣ Commit to spending just 10 minutes a day working on your goal.
Even if you’re struggling right now, your future self will thank you for not giving up.
So tell me—what’s one thing you’re going to start today? Drop it in the comments, and let’s support each other on this journey.
You got this! 💪🏾✨
