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You’re Afraid to Be Uncomfortable, and It’s Holding You Back

Hello, my beautiful sisters.

Let’s talk about something that’s hard to admit: fear of discomfort.

We all have moments when we hesitate to step into the unknown because it feels safer to stay where we are. But let’s be real: growth doesn’t happen when we’re comfortable.

It happens when we stretch, stumble, and trust that God is with us in the process.


Empathy: Understanding Your Struggle

It’s not easy to step into unfamiliar territory.

Maybe it’s trying for a new job, starting a business, or speaking up in a meeting. The thought of failure, rejection, or looking foolish keeps you stuck. You tell yourself, I’ll wait until I’m ready, but deep down, you know that moment may never come.

I’ve been there, too—holding back because the unknown felt too risky.

But sisters, comfort zones are just that: zones. They’re not the destination.


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Reframing the Focus: God’s Presence in the Unknown

Let’s reframe discomfort as a sign of opportunity.

Every challenge you face is a chance to lean on God and grow stronger in your faith. When you’re scared of what’s ahead, remind yourself that God has already gone before you.

In Joshua 1:9, God says, “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” This means you’re never alone—not even in those awkward, nerve-wracking moments.


Encouragement: The Power of Taking the First Step

Start small.

You don’t have to tackle everything at once. Take that first step, whether it’s signing up for a class, having that hard conversation, or applying for a position you feel unqualified for.

Each step forward is an act of faith, and with each step, you’ll find the courage to take another.

Also, celebrate the process. Growth isn’t just about the results—it’s about becoming the person God created you to be.


Uplifting Call to Action

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This week, challenge yourself to do one thing that feels uncomfortable but aligns with your goals.

Journal about how it felt and what you learned. And when doubt creeps in, remember that you’re not just doing this for yourself—you’re fulfilling God’s purpose for your life.

You’ve got this, and God’s got you. Trust Him, take the leap, and watch Him work wonders through your willingness to grow.

Author

  • Shelia Huggins Photo for Black Girl Heal Blog

    Shelia Huggins is a 20+ year attorney who has helped clients with their business and personal legal challenges. She blogs at Black Girl Heal to provide insight and practical strategies for those seeking to heal the struggles of their wallets, mindsets, and lives. Known as "Ms Legalista" on YouTube, she is passionate about helping people find their path and achieve the personal success they've been looking for.

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