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When Office Politics Test Your Patience

Hello, my beautiful sisters.

Office politics can feel like a battleground, can’t they? The gossip, the favoritism, and the constant feeling like you’re walking on eggshells—it’s exhausting.

If you’ve been caught in the crossfire of office politics, I see you, and I’m here for you.


No Matter What You Do

Maybe you’ve tried to keep your head down and stay out of it, only to feel excluded. Or perhaps you’ve spoken up, hoping for fairness, and been met with resistance or silence.

It can feel like no matter what you do, you’re losing a game you never even wanted to play. It’s enough to make you question your worth or wonder if your hard work will ever be enough to break through the noise.

Sister, know this: you are not alone in feeling frustrated and weary.



Where to Find Validation

The thing about office politics is that they are rooted in human imperfections—pride, insecurity, and the desire for control. But you don’t have to let that dictate your peace or your purpose. Instead of focusing on the noise around you, turn your attention inward and upward.

God didn’t place you in that office to get bogged down by petty games; He placed you there to shine your light, no matter how dim the environment may feel.

Let God guide your actions and give you wisdom in handling these situations.

Let Him be the one to validate your efforts, because His approval matters so much more than any office popularity contest.


Encouragement

Sister, you are more than capable of rising above this.

God sees your efforts, even when others don’t. He values your integrity, even when others may not. And He promises that when you commit your work to Him, He will establish your plans.

So don’t let the chaos of office politics steal your joy or derail your purpose. Instead, keep walking in truth, love, and excellence, trusting that God will handle the rest.


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Uplifting Call to Action

This week, I want you to focus on setting boundaries that protect your peace.

  • Decide which conversations you’ll walk away from and which battles are simply not worth fighting.
  • Pray each morning before work, asking God for wisdom and grace in your interactions.
  • Find a trusted confidante—someone outside your workplace—who can offer a listening ear and remind you of your worth.
  • Finally, write down one thing each day that you did well at work. Celebrate your wins, big or small, because they are proof that you are making an impact, regardless of the politics swirling around you.

Sister, you are chosen, you are capable, and you are loved.

Keep your head high and your focus higher.

Author

  • Shelia Huggins Photo for Black Girl Heal Blog

    Shelia Huggins is a 20+ year attorney who has helped clients with their business and personal legal challenges. She blogs at Black Girl Heal to provide insight and practical strategies for those seeking to heal the struggles of their wallets, mindsets, and lives. Known as "Ms Legalista" on YouTube, she is passionate about helping people find their path and achieve the personal success they've been looking for.

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