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How to Find a Side Hustle When Life Feels Overwhelming

Hello, my beautiful sisters.

Life can feel like a juggling act when you already have a demanding job, kids to care for, and a family counting on you. Adding a side hustle to your plate may feel impossible, but sometimes it’s necessary to create the financial stability you deserve.

So how do you make it work without losing your sanity? Let’s break it down together.


Empathy When You’re Trying to Find a Side Hustle

First, let’s acknowledge the weight of what you’re already carrying.

It’s no small feat to manage work, home, and personal responsibilities. You’re doing an incredible job, even if it doesn’t always feel like it. Remember, feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you care deeply about getting it all right.

But let’s be honest: The idea of adding more to your schedule might make you feel like you’re on the verge of crumbling. That’s normal.

Many of us feel that way when trying to balance ambition with real-life demands.


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Reframing the Focus So You Can Get Through

Here’s the key: your side hustle doesn’t have to add unnecessary stress—it should align with your life and values.
God isn’t asking you to do more just for the sake of doing more. He’s guiding you to find something that builds upon your skills and passions while allowing you to fulfill your responsibilities.

Ask yourself:

  • What are my natural strengths?
  • How can I use them in a way that doesn’t compromise my time with family or my own peace of mind?
  • What small adjustments can I make to my routine to create space for this opportunity?

Remember, the goal isn’t just to make money but to do so in a way that doesn’t drain your soul.


Encouragement to Keep Going

Start small.

It’s okay if your first steps feel tiny—God honors your efforts. Maybe it’s taking one hour a week to test out a side hustle idea. Or it’s leveraging something you already do well, like crafting, tutoring, or social media.

Here’s the truth: you don’t have to do everything at once. A side hustle doesn’t have to demand your nights or weekends immediately.

Many small opportunities, like selling products online or freelancing, can start as a few hours a week.


Practical Steps You Can Take to Find Your Side Hustle

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  1. Evaluate Your Time: Look at your weekly schedule. Can you carve out two or three hours to devote to a side hustle without disrupting your priorities?
  2. List Your Skills: Write down what you’re good at or enjoy—writing, cooking, organizing, etc. Your side hustle should align with these.
  3. Research Low-Commitment Opportunities: Explore side hustles that require minimal upfront time or money. Examples:
    • Freelancing on platforms like Fiverr or Upwork.
    • Selling digital products like printables.
    • Reselling items online.
  4. Set Clear Boundaries: Communicate with your family about your goals. Involve them if possible—maybe they can help support or even participate in your hustle.
  5. Keep God at the Center: Pray for guidance. Ask Him to reveal the path that’s right for you and trust the process.

Call to Action

My sisters, the journey to financial freedom and purpose isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it.

When you feel overwhelmed, remember that God never places more on us than we can handle. If He’s nudging you to explore a side hustle, trust that He’ll give you the wisdom to manage it well.

Take a moment today to pray, reflect, and jot down one simple action you can take toward finding the right side hustle for you. It’s time to show up for yourself as much as you do for others.


You’ve got this. And God’s got you.
Let me know in the comments what side hustles you’re considering, or share your story if you’ve already started one.

Together, we’ll find the balance and blessings in this season. 💛

Author

  • Shelia Huggins Photo for Black Girl Heal Blog

    Shelia Huggins is a 20+ year attorney who has helped clients with their business and personal legal challenges. She blogs at Black Girl Heal to provide insight and practical strategies for those seeking to heal the struggles of their wallets, mindsets, and lives. Known as "Ms Legalista" on YouTube, she is passionate about helping people find their path and achieve the personal success they've been looking for.

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