Hello, my beautiful sisters.
Have you ever walked into a room and felt the weight of doubt around you? Maybe it’s the subtle glances, the unspoken questions, or even the outright challenges to your competence.
As a Black woman, these moments can be especially hard when you’re working on your goals. But today, I want to remind you that no matter who questions your worth or abilities, God sees you, and He has equipped you for every room you enter.
Acknowledge and Empathize
Sister, I know how it feels…when you’re a Black woman in a room full of doubters.
You’ve worked hard, earned your place, and yet, the doubt from others can feel suffocating. It’s not just about proving yourself; it’s about carrying the weight of expectations, biases, and the pressure to represent more than just yourself. It’s exhausting.
But I want you to know that those doubts don’t define you, and you are not alone in these moments.
Explore Missteps and Misplaced Focus
When we face doubters, it’s easy to focus on their opinions.
We might try to overcompensate by working harder or shrinking ourselves to avoid confrontation. But neither approach serves us. Overworking can lead to burnout, and shrinking yourself denies the world your brilliance.
The truth is, their doubts are not your responsibility. Your confidence comes from a higher source, not from external validation.
Bring God into the Solution
Remember, you are fearfully and wonderfully made.
God has placed you in that room for a reason. When the doubts creep in, pause and remind yourself of who you are and whose you are. Take a moment to breathe deeply and say, “God, You’ve prepared me for this. Help me to stand in confidence and use my gifts for Your purpose.”
Trust that He’s already equipped you with the skills, wisdom, and strength you need. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone because your worth has already been established by Him.
Let His confidence flow through you, guiding your words, your actions, and your presence.
Call to Uplifting Action
This week, take some time to affirm yourself.
Write down three things you’ve accomplished that you’re proud of. Then, write a prayer or affirmation that you can say before walking into challenging spaces. Something as simple as, “I am here for a reason, and I will let my light shine.”
Carry that affirmation with you and let it remind you of the confidence that comes from within.
Sister, doubters may surround you, but their opinions don’t dictate your destiny. Walk into every room with the assurance that God has gone before you, and He is with you.
You are enough, just as you are.
