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When You Feel Overlooked at Work

Hello, my beautiful sisters. 

If you’re reading this, you might be feeling invisible at work.

Maybe you’ve been putting in the hours, going above and beyond, yet your efforts go unnoticed. Maybe you’ve been passed over for a promotion or left out of important conversations. 

I see you. I hear you. And most importantly, God sees you.

Acknowledge and Empathize

It’s hard, isn’t it?

To show up every day, give your best, and still feel like it’s not enough. You might be asking yourself, “What more can I do?” or “Why does it feel like they don’t value me?”

And if you’re like so many of us, this feeling of being overlooked can start to chip away at your confidence and even your sense of purpose. 

But let me remind you—your value is not determined by anyone’s recognition but God’s love for you.



Explore Missteps and Misplaced Focus

When we feel unseen, it’s easy to start striving for human validation.

Maybe you’ve tried working harder, taking on more responsibilities, or even shrinking yourself to fit into someone else’s expectations. But here’s the truth: when we place our worth in the hands of people, we set ourselves up for disappointment. People are flawed, and their recognition or lack of it can never fully satisfy.

God calls us to work with excellence, not for applause but as an act of worship. Colossians 3:23 reminds us, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” 

When we shift our focus from pleasing people to pleasing God, we find peace, even in seasons of feeling overlooked.

Understanding the Solution

Sister, let me tell you something: God sees every ounce of effort you put in. He sees your dedication, your integrity, and the way you persevere, even when it feels thankless. And He’s not just watching—He’s preparing something better for you.

Take a moment today to refocus. Pray and ask God to remind you of your true worth and purpose. Say, “Lord, help me to see myself the way You see me. Help me to work for Your glory, not for human praise.” 

Then, rest in the knowledge that His plans for you are good. Even when you feel unseen by people, you are never unseen by Him.

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Call to Uplifting Action

So today, I encourage you to shift your focus.

Instead of seeking validation from your boss or coworkers, seek God’s approval. Let Him be your audience of One. Continue to show up, give your best, and trust that He is working behind the scenes.

Remember, God’s timing is perfect. The opportunities He has for you won’t require you to fight for recognition because He’ll place you exactly where you need to be. 

Keep going, my sister. God sees you, He loves you, and He’s got you.

Author

  • Shelia Huggins Photo for Black Girl Heal Blog

    Shelia Huggins is a 20+ year attorney who has helped clients with their business and personal legal challenges. She blogs at Black Girl Heal to provide insight and practical strategies for those seeking to heal the struggles of their wallets, mindsets, and lives. Known as "Ms Legalista" on YouTube, she is passionate about helping people find their path and achieve the personal success they've been looking for.

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